Last month (Feb 13 - Mar 13), Monica and I brought home $23,571 net.

I worked 10 days. Monica worked 13 days.

Here's the complete breakdown of where the money went — and why this month was an anomaly.

Our Current Earnings (2025)

Here's what our year-to-date earnings look like:

Name

Total Hours Worked

Gross pay (ytd)

Avg weekly hours

Avg hourly pay

Jason

522.48

$78,921.10

~20.1 hrs/week

$151/hr

Monica

606.29

$96,259.74

~23.3 hrs/week

$158/hr

Combined, we work about 32 hours per week.

That's less than one full-time nurse, and we're on track to clear over $175,000 combined this year in take-home pay—not gross.

This didn't happen by accident.

Before we moved to Sacramento, I spent months building spreadsheets, comparing cities, running the math on take-home pay after taxes and housing. There was no tool that showed me the real numbers.

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Where the Money Went

The paychecks deposited during this month included work from the previous pay period, but here's what we actually worked:

Jason: 10 days (I work 5 days every two weeks)
Monica: 13 days (per diem schedule: 3 days, then 6, then 4)

The Big Hits (This Was NOT a Normal Month)

  1. Travel & Lifestyle: $6,926

    This wasn't a vacation. Monica's mom was on a flight from JFK to Doha when the plane had to turn around mid-flight due to geopolitical chaos. We had to rebook everything.

    Then we made the call to fly our daughter home from NYU for spring break. Normally $250-300. We paid $500 because we wanted her home with us.

    Then our son's 5th birthday was coming up. He's obsessed with Legoland. We have zero family in Sacramento, so we flew his grandma and cousins in from Georgia and the Bay Area so he could celebrate with them.

  2. Auto Repair: $3,500

    I thought we were going in for an oil change and brake pads. Maybe $400.

    Both control arms on the front of our Volvo XC90 had failed. The bill was $3,200 for repairs alone.

    Total auto & transport for the month: $3,925

  3. Lodging: $1,519

    Lake Tahoe trip + two hotel rooms at Legoland for six people.

  4. Entertainment & Recreation: $986

    Legoland tickets from Costco Travel. Three-day hopper passes at $119 each.

The Regular Monthly Expenses

  • Housing (total): ~$4,500/month

    • Mortgage: $1,958

    • HELOC: ~$1,366 (variable rate)

    • Homeowners insurance, HOA dues, property taxes included

    • Interest rate: 3.37%

  • Food & Dining: $2,143

    • Groceries: $1,067

    • Restaurants: $868 (mostly from our Lake Tahoe trip)

  • Insurance: $3,060

    • Life insurance policies (I have $2.5M coverage, Monica has $1M)

    • Disability rider included

    • We don't pay for health insurance (covered through my benefits)

  • Child Care: $1,402 (our son's pre-K — absolutely essential for us to work and run the business)

  • Bills & Utilities: $758 (phone, gas, electric, water)

  • Shopping: $1,080 (includes gifts for family events, baby showers, birthdays)

  • Pets: $69

  • Health & Wellness: $405

    • Haircuts, gym membership ($70/month we barely use), Botox

The Bottom Line

Normal month: We spend about $9,500

This month: We spent about $21,500 because of emergency travel, the car repair, and the birthday celebration

Savings this month: ~$2,000

But here's the thing: if we hadn't had that $3,500 car repair and $6,900 in family travel expenses, we would have saved over $10,000 this month.

Why This Matters

We can handle a $3,500 car repair without blinking. We can fly family in for birthdays. We can deal with travel emergencies.

And we're still building wealth.

This is what happens when you move to a city where the math actually works.

In Sacramento:

  • We work part-time hours (32 combined per week)

  • We own a home with a 3.37% interest rate

  • We have safe nurse-to-patient ratios

  • We're on track for $220,000 take-home this year

  • We actually have time with our son

Even in a month where we spent $21,500 on emergencies, travel, and celebrations, we still saved money.

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